Women are different... right?

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  • In response to Chiao's post saying "After cru talk i thought, man... Women is another organism!"

    
    
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    George W. Davis IV

  We should talk about that sometime man. I think it's noble for ministry leaders to discuss it, but I think that sometimes it can be a little destructive. For instance, setting boundaries without actually doing anything else beneath the surface is pointless. You must have a different attitude regarding women to keep yourself from making bad decisions. Making external rules does nothing but make us frustrated. That make sense? Sometimes all the purity talk does is make us very tired, frustrated, uptight people who don't trust each other when it comes to sex.
  
  Openly talking about it is good. Thinking to yourself about appropriate boundaries is good too. But as for manufacturing a set of "this is what women and men should and shouldn't do" and enforcing it on many people robs those people of their ability to think for themselves. We all need to ask ourselves if we really want to guard our hearts or not, and then go with whatever we decide, without fooling ourselves.

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  George W. Davis IV I think the whole "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" idea is really sexist towards both genders and is also very outdated. We have a lot of differences, duh, but I think that in reality it's not that hard to understand most of a woman's mind if you really try and listen to them.